For many younger women, older men have a kind of allure that draws them… There are a number of reasons why this could be: it could be the money, it could be the air of finesse and sophistication they have or it could be the fact that they’re pretty experienced. So, while being in or pursuing a relationship with an older man can indeed bring benefits, you may also want to consider something a little more intimate… Like what sleeping with an older man can bring! Well, let us enlighten you!
The Right Kind of Confidence
Confidence in the bedroom can be a double-edged sword: on the one hand, it can mean that a person is overconfident and therefore doesn’t really do their best to please their partner – they believe that their way is the right way and simply won’t listen to any advice. This is a trait that is often seen in younger men. Older men, on the other hand, tend to be a lot more aware of what overconfidence can do and therefore will curb their enthusiasm in this regard.
It will mean having the right kind of confidence. They will generally know how to please a woman (or man!) but they will also be happy to ask and see what really gets you going. The confidence here lies in the fact that they know they don’t know everything: however, they’re willing to tailor the sexual experience to suit your needs!
You’ll Feel Comfortable With Him
Remember what we said about finesse? Well, there’s another benefit things brings: security! Being around someone who is calm and secure can have a rub-on effect… and this goes well into the bedroom! You won’t feel like you have to perform in a certain way. An older man will be happy to guide you and let you figure out what you are comfortable with – this is especially true if you don’t have a lot of sexual experience.
Romance Is Still a Factor
When it comes to hopping into bed with an attractive older man, you may not necessarily want to just “fuck and leave”. Romance, for many, is an important component and older men have an advantage in this area. They have already made mistakes in this regard and therefore know how to navigate the waters of love.
Besides, being wined, dined and sixty-nined can in and of itself be a wonderfully enchanting experience! You won’t be taken to any old cheap, shabby place either: you’ll be seeing the best of what your town or city has to offer.
A Great Place to Fuck!
This tends to be more of a superficial detail but it is worth mentioning: older men have great houses and apartments! You won’t be taken back to some run-down studio to fuck on a futon. No, you’ll basically be staying at his equivalent of the Ritz: a proper house where you’ll get a proper breakfast. What more could a girl want?