“It’s not ethical!” Let me stop you right there: it wouldn’t be ethical if the said person were wide awake. If he/she is sleeping, then you’re all set.
Most people see this as being somewhat of a taboo. We don’t know why. We only know it’s far from being a taboo. You can deny it as much as you want: at some point, having sex with someone sleeping in the same room was everything you wanted to do.
You probably asked yourself “Is it worth it?” If you haven’t found the answer yet, here it is: Hell yes!
Why Is It Worth It?
For starters, the very idea that you might be caught with the pants around your ankles is tremendously arousing. So is the fact that the two of you have to bite on the pillows, so no squeak or groan disturbs the dreams of the one who has absolutely no idea what’s going on.
Second of all, this is the moment when sex is the closest to “making love.” You won’t be able to pull off all the poses in the Kama Sutra. This limitation will lead to some really tender intercourse. It will all look slow-motioned, but that’s just another perk.
Speed doesn’t necessarily mean pleasure. In some cases, it can be anything but. Doing it slowly for a change will give you a whole new perspective on sex. Even if you’re not a fan of this, it doesn’t hurt to try it at least once.
What Precautions Should I Take?
First of all, make sure you won’t stab your pinkie on the foot of the bed. Obviously, check to see if the person in the room is actually asleep, or you might end up short of a friend or on PornHub.
As tempted you might be to emit all sorts of sounds, don’t do it. Stopping yourself from screaming when all you want to do is scream is the hardest thing you’ve probably ever done since graduating college, but you need to do it.
Another thing that I would recommend is: don’t do it on beds with poor springs that sound like a flock of banshees whenever you move. If the bed has a mattress, you’re all set. Bunk beds can be great for this, as long as the framework does not screech.
If you’ve never had sex while someone was sleeping in the same room, you’re really missing out. It can be the best sex you’ve ever had yet. And one more thing: try not to plan it.
Be spontaneous, and the pleasure will be ten times bigger. You will probably do it while keeping an eye on whoever it is sleeping, but it’s great. It’s nothing out of the ordinary, to be honest.
There are thousands of people that do it this way. Once again: it is totally worth it, trust me on this. Just take those precautions I’ve outlined above, to be 100% sure you won’t scar anyone for life. Good luck and have fun!