A lot of men these days know that you don’t have to wait for sex to find you. In fact, you don’t even have to head out to the bar. The entire world is available at the tip of your fingers – on your smartphone, tablet or PC. So, when it comes to finding sex what are you waiting for? There are plenty of online sex dating and adult sites that hookup horny single people (and a few married/in relationships) to meet one another for a hot night of passion!
Sex Dating for Men: Where to Begin
Your profile will be your personal ad, the very first thing a lady sees when she’s looking for a hot guy to fuck. So, you need to make it as appealing as possible. A lot of men make the mistake of posting bare-chested photos, flexing and showing off their muscles.
A lot of women, on the other hand, have a different idea of sexiness. It may be to do with a guy’s face, his smile or the way his eyes reflect. Perhaps it’s the pose he’s holding, or the clothes he is wearing (a suit or a uniform will not only make you look reliable, but it will make the women flock to you!). So with regards to your profile photo: make sure that you look respectable but alluring!
Your Sex Dating Profile Text: Don’t Be a Pig
Basically, talk like a real person. Because even though you are online, you are still interacting with other people. These people would like to be treated like human beings (yes, you can still fuck someone and treat them like a person). So, write a profile text that speaks to the woman and answers the questions she’s asking. Since it is a sex dating site, don’t be afraid to mention things your favorite sexual positions or toys. However, don’t speak in a rude or crass manner. You can discuss these things without sounding like a horny teenager!
Since we are on the topic of writing, the same principle can be applied to the messages you write to women. More than likely on a sex contact site, you will have to be the one to initiate contact. However, sending a simple message like, “Wanna fuck?” is not going to get you many answers. The answers you do get will be rather cross ones.
Instead, address the person on the other end like a person! Ask them if they would like to meet for coffee or for a drink. This is usually best as you two can get to know one another and then see what happens later on (or the day after… it’s entirely up to you how far you’d like to go!). Sex dating isn’t actually that hard, however, a lot of men tend to overdo it and come off as oversexed horn-dogs online.