The MILF and the GILF: Here’s to You Mrs. Robinson


Why is the MILF so popular in porn and in brothels for younger men?

Ah, to be young, blond, perky and sexy all over again. The problem with that idea, is that once that ship has sailed, it never comes back ashore. But have no fear because the mighty MILF. If you have been hiding under a rock for many years, MILF is an acronym for “mother I’d like to f*ck”, a part of our cultural lexicon since it popped up in the 1999 hit movie “American Pie.” If the truth be told, the mighty MILF has been here, well, forever really. While we’ve written about the benefits of a younger partner sleeping with an older man, we haven’t touched on the rise in popularity of the MILF.

The MILF in "American Pie"

The MILF in “American Pie”

The MILF we all know, and love was brought to the big screen in 1967, with the movie The Graduate starring Dustin Hoffman and Anne Bancroft. According to the Internet Movie Database (, the movie is summarized this way, “A disillusioned college graduate finds himself torn between his older lover and her daughter.” Sounds like he got himself in quite a pickle in my humble opinion.

In any case, let’s get back on topic, shall we? The question we all want an answer to be simple, “Why are MILFs and GILFs (another acronym, except it’s a grandma I’d like to …) so popular and exciting for younger men in porn films and brothels?” Let’s see if I can find the answer for those of you out there with enquiring minds.

Here we’ll give you a few reasons why MILFs and GILFs are so popular in today’s male society, but remember this, the population of MILFs and GILFs continues to increase as more men and women realize the benefits of aging and becoming more mature.

Fantasy into Reality

It doesn’t get much simpler than this reason after all, changing fantasy into reality, is pretty cut and dry. Who doesn’t want their deepest fantasies to become realities? Many males have fantasies of being adored, loved, pampered, and simply fucked by older women, especially those with a nice nest egg. Why do you think Sugar Mamas and Sugar Daddies exist? Not just because they have sweet names…

the graduate MILF

From “The Graduate” (Moviestore collection Ltd / Alamy Stock Photo)

A MILF is experienced and has a lot to teach

MILFs and GILFs have experience in all things sexual. Younger women may look great, but most of the time, their experience is limited. Not true with mature women, after all, they’ve been doing it for a lot longer and have learned a few things along the way. (Insert sarcasm here)

A MILF can Communicate

Chances are high they can hold an intelligent conversation with another person, whether of a sexual nature or not. Feel like talking about the latest weather or some non-sexual topic? Whatever the topic, you can rest assured, they can communicate about it, even if they do not fully understand it. When this is the case, they will let you know. Prepare yourself for this next statement, Lothario.

If you’re doing the deed wrong, a MILF is not shy, they will let you know how to do it right. They will also communicate if there is something they do not like, and let you know how to do it right to arouse them. So just when you think you are the player-extraordinaire of your generation, be prepared to be cut down to a whimpering, inexperienced teenage boy. It can happen, and the only one losing any sleep over it will be you.


The MILF is About Freedom and Fun

Sometimes, it really is all about the sex, giving and receiving sexual pleasure is a huge factor. Many MILFs have already been there, done that with the committed relationships, and for some reason it didn’t work out or some tragedy happened. Therefore, they are out for fun, with no strings attached, so it’s all about the sex!

The MILF is Confident

Once a MILF becomes a MILF, you will find that they are confident with their lives, their looks, their bodies, and especially their sexual prowess. Most of the time, a MILF will exude confidence in everything that they do.

She knows what she wants

True fact, most women that are coined MILF’s want sex, period. No lovey-dovey,  kissy-kissy, mushy stuff, just straight up, mind-blowing and satisfying sex. You’d be surprised by the number of women, MILFs that just want sex. They can be found on several websites all over the internet, and their numbers grow every day.

The MILF Loves Sex!

Amazing right? No drama, no hormonal craziness, the freedom to enjoy sexual activity with no holds barred, sounds like living the dream doesn’t it? Older women have these benefits. Drama doesn’t exist and the time to enjoy an active sexual side is definitely a perk. No one to tell them how it’s done, and they can enjoy it thoroughly, no holds barred, (within reason of course).

She is Supremely Creative in the Sheets

Go to an adult toy store that may exist in your area on a busy day, then look around and see who frequents it the most, older women. Yes, younger women do too, but older women no longer get embarrassed by that crotchless pair of panties, or well-endowed dildo on the wall. New toys hit the shelves often, and a MILF has no problem trying as many as she can get the most pleasure from or which one, she can give the most pleasure with.

For these reasons, and many more not listed, younger men are enthralled by older women, and have always been for centuries. Any other suggestions as to why younger men and porn films are drawn to MILFs and GILFs? If you have more, leave us a note in the comments section. Until next time, enjoy!


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A busy writer, designer and editor, Diane writes for Adult Press, and well as She also helps run Me and Mrs Jones, an adult toy boutique. She's always happy to do research into adult related stories and adult product reviews. Connect via Instagram @adultpressau

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