If you look at the media and television, you will see that a lot of the “sexy” advertisements out rely heavily on female sexuality. In fact, you could probably say that the world is obsessed with female sexuality. At the same time, however, the actual sexual pleasure of women is something that is constantly undermined. You can see this in articles that debate the existence of the female orgasm – many of them completely disregarding the views of women from the get-go!
When it comes to masturbation, there are a lot of things that get shoved to the side. However, self-pleasure for women is a varied and interesting topic. It is one that can also bring you to new heights of arousal. What is important here is to take a look at the basics.
Focus on Your Sensuality
Sensuality – and not just sexuality – is key here. There are a lot of books out there that will teach women how they can pleasure themselves. This does not have to involve having a bath, lighting candles or putting on mood music (although you can certainly try this out if you want). The important thing here is to consider what it is you want.
So, consider your vagina. It has a lot of erogenous points. Maybe take a bit of time to play around, touch and see what sort of sensations you like best. You can even try using a couple of sex toys such as dildoes and vibrators of various sizes. Try and see just how much penetration actually does for you and what you would like to experience.
Build Yourself Up to Orgasm
Orgasm does not have to be the goal of sex or masturbation. However, it is very much something that you can enjoy. Your masturbation session can last for as long as you want it to in some cases, women may end up doing it for hours and hour. One of the best things about being female is that multiple orgasms are certainly a thing.
This does mean being in tune with your body, of course. Some experts will even advice women to meditate on their bodies in order to find out what it is they are looking for. You don’t have to get into the lotus position and start meditating right away, although this is definitely an interesting idea and something that you should keep in mind.
Communicate with Your Partner
This is not necessarily self-pleasure, however, it is still something that can be explored when you are having sex with another partner. When it comes to fulfilling and satisfying sex, one of the key ingredients is communication. So, you need to make sure that your partner understands what you want and what brings you to those pleasurable heights.
There is so much more out there that you can read when it comes to female self-pleasure. This is only the tip of the iceberg. The important thing, however, is to make sure that you know and understand your own desires!